A place of therapy massively under catered for: both an understanding that is thorough analysis of covert narcissistic character condition and covert exploitative strategies and especially just how to treat the nature of damaging long term complex traumatization and problems for an individuals psyche this type of hidden punishment may cause.
“But they seemed therefore good-hearted and susceptible, i simply desired to help…”
We can’t inform you exactly just how several times I’ve had customers tearfully acknowledge this for me in state of absolute despair.
Covert Narcissists dangle their vulnerability prior to you as bait, simply looking forward to your good nurturing mothering/fathering instincts to start working and save the indegent little child that is lost are presenting for you.
When you touch base a hand that is helping their jaws snap closed for you.
We be seduced by the projected idealised image of the individual the covert narcissist wishes they are often but understands inside their hearts they’re not. Here is the individual they have to persuade other people they truly are so that you can foster narcissistic supply.
Customers would tell me the individual had been “not my usual type” or “I didnt also see them attractive at first”.
Yes, as they are NOT your kind. However they are smart adequate to know very well what you are searching for during the amount of your core values and mildew by themselves appearing to express that whilst provoking as much sympathy in you for them as they possibly can.
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