We’re lucky that we are now living in san francisco bay area where in fact the kink community is big and active while having devoted areas for safe research and play.

Our very first experience had been 2 yrs ago at a workshop that is small The Citadel where in actuality the workshop frontrunner, a seasoned Dom, supplied instruction on proper practices in order to avoid injury along with which toys for people to experience. We began with floggers, that we liked, but I became additionally interested in caning, therefore we asked the workshop frontrunner if he’d cane me. It hurt far more that I felt nauseated, but then the endorphins hit than I expected, so much. After four shots, I became in subspace for the time that is first and therefore ended up being wonderful. Floaty and mellow, we pretty much curled up close to my partner and purred for the remainder session. Ever since then, we’ve acquired a fairly substantial doll chest—floggers, paddles, canes, pinwheels and pet claws, bondage cuffs and restraints, spanking gloves, clothespins—we’re exploring a full-time d/s relationship.

Among the things we love about kink and BDSM is the fact that, because we do stuff that could cause injury, interaction is completely important. Intentionality is very important, beforehand—am I looking for pain or sensuality or sensation so we talk about what kind of experience we want?

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