A lot more than language barrier, it is exactly just how a few communicates with one another about their various social backgrounds that produces a marriage that is multicultural more difficult. My spouce and I used to secure horns with one another each time we talked about “how things are done in my nation” and “how they must be done in Korea”, but as years passed, we now have learned just how to accept our distinctions. I utilized to offer him the talk that is long but he hated that, and known it as “nagging” even if We ended up beingn’t speaking angrily, therefore now if we need certainly to speak about our distinctions, We get directly to the idea and merely make sure he understands the way I feel. We don’t compare or utilize my tradition as a justification. We do not be protective. We simply tell him to pay attention and once I talk my brain, they can talk and I’ll be all ears.
It assists to produce a compromise. We now have agreed that we should follow (mostly) the Korean way, but when we are in the Philippines, we do things my way since we live in Korea. A woman’s submission to male authority is extremely important in Korean culture, but i will be grateful to own a spouse who respects my independency and it is prepared to comply to produce our relationship work.
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